Writing
Notes for before you book anything.
Mostly written for the stage where you are still deciding whether any of this applies to you.
3
pieces so far
"But You Did Fine at School"
Academic success is treated as evidence against ADHD and autism. It is not, and that assumption is why so many adults get assessed decades late.
Read it → August 14, 2026What a Diagnosis Does and Does Not Fix
An honest account of what changes after an adult assessment — including the deflating part nobody mentions in the first week.
Read it → July 18, 2026The Arithmetic of Masking
Masking is usually described in emotional terms. It is also a straightforward energy calculation, and that framing makes it easier to act on.
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